SEX ABUSE AND PERVERSION

The King’s Son

There was a boy whose father was a king.  He had interest in his half-sister and wanted to have sex with her.  The thought of this disturbed him so much and soon it became obvious to his friend that something was wrong.  His friend inquired and he told him of his desire and burning passion for his half-sister. The friend gave him terrible advice, to feign sickness and send to his father to ask his half-sister to come and prepare food for him.  This plan seemed good to them and it worked out!  His father sent her to him and she prepared food for him.  He then grabbed her and raped her.  After the sex, he hated her more than he loved her earlier.

1. What would you say about the boy’s action?

2. Do you think he got satisfaction?

3. Why do you think he hated the girl afterward?

In God’s design, sexual activity is only to be practiced in marriage. Therefore, proper use of sex is in marriage.  

Sex abuse is improper expression of sexuality or misuse of the gift of sex. Generally, any sexual activity outside of marriage is misuse of sexuality. Legally, any sexual activity against the consent of any of the parties involved is sexual abuse. Sex is a powerful force.  It is like fire, which can be very useful but can also destroy a house and entire property or even kill people or wipe away a community within a short time. The same is true about sex.  When people try to satisfy their sexual desire outside marriage, it constitutes an abuse and can destroy them, their homes and others.

The Concept of Sexual Perversion

Carl’s Story

Carl passed her common entrance examination into one of the big Government Girls’ schools in town.  Her first impression about the school was that the senior girls were very kind. She felt safe and secure since the senior girls were taking good care of the junior girls and providing them extra beverages.

Soon she was caught in a web of lesbianism.  She could not complain because she discovered that it was a very normal phenomenon in that school.  Though she did not initially like it, as years passed by, she became engulfed in the practice.  How to stop it was a problem and it also affected her studies. She performed badly in her last exam and her parents were not happy with her.

Margaret’s Story

Margaret received her admission letter into a Polytechnic and was so excited to leave home after one year of waiting for the admission. However her father was unhappy because of the school she was admitted into.  This made Margaret confused and sad.  Her father told her that he did not want her to go to that school because a man once came to the school and offered a huge amount of money to two girls so that they could have sex with his dog.  The two girls accepted the money and had sex with the dog.  A few days later, they were rushed to a hospital where they died.  “That school is the worst school around. I would not want you to go there.  The students of that school are wild and wayward,” he explained

1.   What are the wrong practices found among schoolgirls?

2.   If you were any of the girls, what would you do?

Any form of sex that is not between a man and a woman is sexual perversion.

Sex is an exclusive relationship meant only for a man and a woman who are bound in marriage.

Forms of Sex Abuse and Perversion

Abuse	Perversion
1. Fornication	Homosexuality
2. Adultery	Lesbianism
3. Rape	Bestiality
4. Incest	Masturbation
	Pornography

1. Fornication – sexual intercourse between people before marriage
2. Adultery – Sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than his/her spouse.
3. Rape – Forced sexual intercourse – sex without the consent of one partner
4. Incest – Sexual relationship between family members or relations
5. Homosexuality – Sexual relationship between persons of the same gender: e.g. male and male.
6. Lesbianism – A female homosexual: sexual relationship between a female and female
7. Bestiality – Sexual relations with animals.
8. Masturbation- Arousal of self sexually.

Think About This

Fire can be very useful. We use it at home to prepare our meals and sometimes to keep us warm. But what happened when it is taking out of the fire place? When not handled with care and left to burn indiscriminately? Have you seen the disaster that such fire has caused before?

 Sex is beautiful within the confined of the husband and  wife. Any form of sexual pervasion destroys life. Save your life.

culled from FCS Life Skills Manual

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